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I was suddenly woken up by my husband humming and giggling in bed.

 I turn on the light and he doesn't flinch, but begins flapping his arms.

I call 911 and they take him to the hospital.

 To my horror, they informed me that he had—a severe form of sleepwalking.

 A condition that worsens without emotional support.

The doctor looked at me and gently added, “This kind of disorder becomes dangerous when someone feels alone for too long. He needed attention… and perhaps you haven’t truly been present for him for quite some time.”

His words struck me harder than I expected.

I felt the air leave my lungs as guilt slowly crept into my chest.

Had I really ignored him that long?

Had I been so absorbed in my own world that I didn’t notice my own husband drifting away, silently battling something he couldn’t control?

When I entered his hospital room, he was sitting there—fragile, confused, almost childlike.

The moment he saw me, his eyes softened, but there was a sadness buried behind them that I had never noticed before.

“Did I do something weird again?” he asked, trying to smile.

My heart twisted. I sat beside him and took his hand. “You scared me,” I whispered. “You’ve been sleepwalking… badly. Why didn’t you tell me?”

He looked down at his fingers, twisting them nervously. “You were always busy… always tired. I didn’t want to bother you. I thought I could handle it alone.”

That sentence broke me.

I moved closer and wrapped my arms around him. He stiffened in surprise before slowly melting into my embrace.

“I’m sorry,” I whispered, voice trembling. “I should have been there. I should have noticed. I won’t leave you to face this alone anymore.”

He buried his face into my shoulder, and for the first time in months, I felt his body truly relax in my arms.

In that quiet, sterile hospital room, I realized how easily love can fade into the background when life becomes loud… and how desperately we must fight to pull it back to the front.

Because sometimes, the person who seems the strongest is the one who’s been breaking the longest.

And as I held him, I finally understood just how much I had missed—the quiet sighs he thought I couldn’t hear, the nights he stayed awake waiting for me to come home, the way his smiles had slowly become thinner, weaker… almost forced.

He wasn’t asking for much.
Just a little time.
A little warmth.
A little space in my heart that used to belong only to him.

I pulled back and cupped his face gently. His eyes were red, not from illness, but from a loneliness he had carried far too long.

“We’ll get through this,” I told him softly. “Not you alone. Us. I’m here… really here now.”

He let out a shaky breath, as if he had been holding it in for months.

“Promise?” he whispered.

I nodded. “I won’t lose you. Not again.”

His hand tightened around mine—weak, trembling, but full of a hope I thought we had lost.

And in that moment, I made a quiet vow to myself:

to listen more, to be present, to love deeper…
before silence becomes a cry for help,
and before distance becomes a wound too large to heal.

For the first time in a long while, he leaned his head on my shoulder—not as a man pretending to be strong, but as someone finally allowed to fall apart… knowing he had someone who would hold the pieces together.